the last couple of days ive been thinking about a topic that i feel needs attention. Guys do not have the slightest fucking clue how to treat a woman. none. nothing. the male species has killed all dignity, respect and honor from relationships. now im no fucking Romeo, ladies man, pimp, player whatever the hell you call it, but i do know the ingredients on recipe to meeting your future wife (or getting you laid at least).
first step: guys, please stop acting like your some cocky ass player that can get any woman you want. unlees your cristiano ronaldo or a calvin klein model, that shit aint happening. be realistic. sure i want to marry sandra bullock or make out with mila kunis, but what are the chances that's gonna happen? pretty damn slim. and if you strike out with a chick you really like, its ok. it happens to everyone. there are 6 billion people in the world. trust me you'll find someone.
if your trying to impress a woman, be sure to listen to EVERY SINGLE DETAIL. if there's something ive learned, its thats listening to detail give you big clues to what she likes. for instance, she loves homemade bracelets. surprise her with one you made. or tell your little sister to make you one, either way your scoring points! they love that kind of shit..um i mean stuff.
another good thing i like to point out: be spontaneous, and she will always love you. ill use myself as an example. every other day i would write a poem to my love. no two poems were ever the same. they were simple but yet complicated enough for her to know that i actually wrote them by hand and from my heart. the reaction i got was the same one each time. take her to the park one weekend. the zoo the next. if she ever mentions a special place she goes to, take her there by surprise for an anniversary. always try to outdo yourself from the last time.
be mature. i know that every single guy does this, and we need to stop. stop checking out every single girl around you. you can do that in your own time but not while your with your lady. that shit is not cool and im pretty sure you dont want her doing the same thing to you.
for the love of god, DONT BE FUCKING JEALOUS BECAUSE SHE TALKS TO HER GUY FRIENDS. it makes you look like an inconsiderate prick when you get mad beacuse she text a guy from work. stop assuming she's fucking every guy she talks to (unless she has a history of that). let her have her space and you can have yours. it seems morre likely YOUR the one cheating on her instead of it being the other way around. shes not some piece of property that you own. let her do whatever the fuck she wants. this problem has become more noticeable as i grew up. what i never got was how guys treat their girlfriends like shit but they get mad when they talk to other guys. what the fuck?
the main point im trying to get to is make her feel like shes the only girl in world. give her 110% of your attention. treat her like a queen(but dont get too carried away. alot of gold diggers out there these days). make her feel special. you know you accomplished your goal if she tells you that every time shes with you, she get butterflys in her stomach. hopefully youll feel the same way about her. i know that unfortunatley these things may not be enough for someone sometimes.and i hope that no one has the same thing happen to them as to me. "i dont need you anymore". the final stab in a dying heart.
Can we get more guys like you?!? you were right about all those things, it really isn't that hard yo understand us women. Specially the spontaneous part. We already expect nothing sweet from you guys so when you guys do something out of nowhere or take us somewhere we had said but we thought you didn't listen ...thats when you guys get us. Not that it happens very often but you know once in a while.
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